How can a friendship that's strong end so wrong? Find out here.
"We'd walk to the corner together,
Eat M&M's and wait for the bus.
I remember she'd always stick up for me
When Tad Smith would make fun of us.
We played for the Rascals together.
She knew how to clean up the bases.
She pitched. I was catcher. We had secret signals.
I'd laugh when she made silly faces.
We'd share a shale in the food court
When her mom drove us to the mall.
We'd pretend not to notice the boys when they passed;
By now Tad was not bad at all.
I was better with numbers.
We'd painstakingly work each equation.
She grabbed me and hugged me,
Then straightened my cap when we lined up for graduation.
So many memories of glad times;
So warm was the laughter and fun.
Where did the years go when we left that place?
How could our lives here be done?
We went to the Judgment together,
Once more we were standing in line.
I had one more chance to look into the face
Of this wonderful friend of mine.
It spoke of the bus stop, the ball field, the school;
Of math class, the mall, and the show.
In all of these times i never had told her
Of this one final place we would go.
Just one more day at the bus stop,
Or shopping and sharing a shake;
Just one more test for eleventh grade trig;
One more, that's all it would take.
I'd be sure this time not to miss them;
Those everyday chances to show
The Christ of the cross, His hope for the lost,
This time I would tell her I know.
But there's no going back. It's all over.
A whispered 'goodbye,' and it's severed;
A friendship so strong,
Yet it ended so wrong.
It's all over forever and ever." ~Unknown
I remember the very first time that I read this poem. The end of the poem almost had me in tears. I realized that some of my friendships will end the way that the poem did if I do not try to show my friends the Truth. "And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (John 8:32). We are constantly given the opportunity to show our friends and family the way, but it is up to us whether or not we take that opportunity. Tomorrow may be too late (James 4:14), so take that opportunity everyday. Don't let your friendship end very wrong, take the time to tell them about Jesus.
By: Jennifer Odom
My name is Jennifer Odom and I've been a Christian since October 2011. I'm a 19-year-old sophomore at Freed-Hardeman University. I like reading, crocheting, and Bible journaling. My favorite verse is Philippians 1:21. I write for Tomorrow's Church, Today and am the editor for Beyond the Foam. I hope to speak at several ladies days, become a music teacher, get involved with mission work, and bring as many people as I can with me to heaven. Stepping in Light is affiliated with the church of Christ.